As an 8 year old girl living in Springville, Utah in 1979 California seemed so exotic and far away. I had never been there but that was where the beach and Disneyland were and also where the movie stars lived. I knew everyone from California was gorgeous. So, when a family was going to be moving into our little cul de sac from California it was exciting stuff! And, the family had 7 kids with one more on the way. More kids to play night games with! I will never forget the day that the Thorn Family arrived into our lives. They pulled into the circle with a big motorhome and a boat. As they all piled out of the motor home and cars I knew I was right about the gorgeous people from California. They were beautiful, especially the mom; Joanne. She was pregnant with the youngest Thorn but was still smiling that beautiful smile of hers-even after moving her family from California to small town Springville into our little cul de sac. Who knew what adventures that would bring for our families.
Joanne was born in Boise, Idaho. She has 2 brothers and one sister. She lived in Boise until she was 15. Her family then moved to California. She said she wasn't too happy about the move and refused to talk for about two weeks when her family first got there (I guess she wasn't excited about the whole beach, Disneyland, movie star thing). After those first two weeks she came around and decided it wasn't going to be too bad-maybe she went to the beach. She married Chuck Thorn (who was good looking enough to be a movie star) in 1963. They had 7 children; Angela, Matt, Justin, Ben, Trent, Lydia, and Corinne. Chuck grew up in Springville and they decided to move back in 1979. They had Clint here in Utah and that made 8 kids!
Just to give you an idea of what kind of person Joanne is I have a favorite story. The Thorn's were going back to California to visit for a couple weeks after living in Utah for a year. She asked if my sister and I wanted to go. I guess she figured with 8 kids what's two more? This was the first time I had been away from home with out my parents. We got to go in the motorhome and I was so excited to see the beach, Disneyland, and maybe a movie star! Well, I got to see all that (except for the movie star). At one point I was very homesick. I remember Joanne being so patient with me. After I had a good cry all was well and I loved that trip! Whenever I am in Disneyland or the beach I always think of Joanne and how wonderful the Thorns were to take me and my sister to California. They not only took us to California but would take us boating Utah Lake. I loved the banana we would ride behind the boat. I don't know how any of us survived when we would crash and about seven other people's arms, legs, and heads would land on you! We were also invited skiing many times with the Thorns. And we all spent many hours on the front porch of my Mom's home visiting.
This next part of Joanne's story is hard for me to write. There was so much that happened it was hard to choose which events to write. I have taken many days to try and get the words right.
Joanne's oldest, Angela or we called her Angie, and my sister Kelly became really close friends. They were together all the time. When Kelly graduated from High School She and Angie decided to drive to California to get clothes for a business Angie had started. When they were outside of Baker, California they were in a horrible accident. Their car flipped and rolled end over end. Angie was thrown from the car and Kelly somehow stayed in. They were life flighted to a hospital in Las Vegas. That night changed many lives forever. Angie had severe head trauma and was in a coma. Kelly looked like someone had taken a baseball bat and beaten her. She was heart broken for Angie. Angie's coma continued for 5 months. She slowly came out of the coma but had months of rehab in front of her. Angie was never the same. Watching the process was like watching a toddler learning how to do everything, but in a teenage body. Right along Angie's side during all this was Joanne. She had seven children at home but was focused on Angie. It was an extremely difficult time. During our interview Joanne told me one of the hardest things about all this was the rest of life was going forward. Her children were starting school, Lydia was starting Kindergarten and Joanne was so invested in Angie's recovery. Like I mentioned, this night changed lives forever. Angie would never be the same and neither would the Thorn family. Angie's recovery would take years. It involved months in hospitals and rehab centers, very frustrating and painful moments. There were also moments of joy that include jelly bellies, pianos, and smiles. I truly do not know how Joanne went through this with her beautiful, full of life daughter but she did. She did it the best way she could. She has amazing faith and kept getting up each morning to deal with seven children and a daughter that was changed forever. During all this she would always make me and others feel welcome in their home to help with the kids or Angie. Angie has now been married twice. Her first husband Jr. took wonderful care of her in California. When he passed away Angie moved back to Springville and met Daniel. If you have lived in Springville you may have seen Angie walking around town. If you visit with Angie she will tell you "life is marvelous and you are beautiful." You will always feel better after you visit with Angie.
Joanne wasn't done with hard things. Chuck was diagnosed with Parkinsons disease when he was 42 years old. He lived with Parkinsons for 28 years. 21 of those years Joanne was his full time caretaker. This disease changed everything. In 1990 Chuck and Joanne had moved back to California. Chuck's disease had progressed enough in 1996 that they knew they needed to downsize and move back to Utah. They had a chance to move into Chuck's family home in Springville. This ended up being a blessing in their lives for many reasons. They had family and friends nearby that could help with Chuck. I love this home. It is one of the most quaint and beautiful homes in Springville. Chuck and Joanne have done a wonderful job with the home. Joanne has the most beautiful garden in the backyard. She had never gardened before. This garden turned into a huge blessing in Joanne's life. As she puts it "I found myself knee deep in pots, plants, and soil and discovered the joy of filling the earth and growth. What a blessing this has been." I believe the garden was Joanne's therapy through all the trying times when Chuck would get so bad from his Parkinsons.
Chuck passed away in May of 2014. Joanne stayed by his side through all of his struggles with the disease. They had an amazing marriage and truly showed what devotion is. That devotion helped them through some difficult times.
Chuck and Joanne have 27 grandchildren. Joanne spends much of her time with them. She still gardens and makes recipes with items from her garden.
Some of you who will read this will know Joanne and know of her wonderful laughter and kindness. You will know of her beauty and spunkiness. If you don't know Joanne or don't know her very well, you are missing out. She is truly one of the best people around. She is not perfect, none of us are. I remember her raising her voice a few times while raising those 8 kids! She is human after all, and the Thorn kids weren't perfect either. But, I hope to get through hard times as well as Joanne and still enjoy life like she does. I also wish I can be as beautiful and stylish as she is!
I don't think any of us know why some of us have to go through so much and others don't seem to have as much or as hard of trials. I don't think Joanne dwells on those kind of thoughts. I believe she thinks we just get through trials and enjoy all the good days God gives us. Like Joanne told me; "Love is too little of a word! And, the best is yet to come!"
I love you Joanne. Thank you for letting me interview you for the Good Blog. I so enjoyed our afternoon together. I have always admired you as a mom, a wife, a neighbor, a friend, a grandmother, and now a gardener. I want to thank you for letting me be a part of the Thorn Family. When I run into you or one of your kids I always feel loved and welcomed. I guess when you go through the ups and downs of life together that's what happens! Thank you for going through the ups and downs so gracefully.
This picture shows Joanne in just a very small part of her garden. |
Joanne choose her Garden Pesto Recipe for the Good Blog. I have always wanted to make Pesto. It was pretty easy and very delicious. We have been eating it all week on all sorts of things, even Sloppy Joes.
Garden Pesto
1 Cup firmly packed sweet basil leaves
1/2 Cup firmly packed Italian Parsley
1 large clove garlic
1/4 C Olive Oil
Toasted Pine Nuts to taste.
Joanne always triples the recipe. For non-vegans she adds grated Romano Cheese. Add salt to taste.
Toast pine nuts |
Put basil, parsley, garlic in food processor. |
Add toasted Pine Nuts. Mix together, adding Olive Oil in as it mixes. |
You can have your pesto with crackers, on pasta or sandwiches. Many uses for this Pesto! |
The book Joanne choose for The Good Blog is Two Part Invention: The Story of a Marriage
written by Madeline L'Engle. She also recommends The Book Thief by Markus Zusak.